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Pamela J Soucier

December 24, 1955 — April 5, 2023


Ashburnham-Pamela J. (Bulger) Soucier, 67, died at her home after a sudden illness, Wednesday, April 5, 2023. 
She leaves two sons, Robert G.J. Stebbins of Fitchburg, and Matthew S.M. Stebbins and his wife Carla of E. Templeton; her father, John W. Bulger and his wife, Dorothy of Chesterville, ME; five grandchildren, Pryce Stewart and his wife Kateri, Alicia Stebbins, Phylecia Stebbins, Brendyn Stebbins, and Emilee Stebbins; five great-grandchildren, Adalynn Stebbins, Dagonet Stewart, Leon Byron, Daelyn Stewart, and Coraline Stebbins; one half-brother, John Bulger Jr. and his wife Janice of Georgia; one half-sister, Lisa M. Cumming, and her husband Chad of Bridgton, Maine; three step-sisters, Debbie Fleck and her husband Rick of Leominster, Donna Gamache, and her fiance Dennis Stange of Athol, and Becky Flynn and her husband Patrick of Milford, NH; her three adopted children, Michael Reynolds, Aaron Piquette, and Tammy Boudreau-Minard, her adopted great-granddaughter Alexandra Renaud and many nieces and nephews. 
She was born in Ayer on December 24, 1955, a daughter of the late Phyllis E. (Peters) Bulger. She grew up in Groton and graduated from Groton-Dunstable High School. She worked as a PCA for many years. She enjoyed knitting, and her children, grandchildren, and family were the most important part of her life. Pamela was a loving and caring lady who would have helped anyone in need. She will be greatly missed by all who knew, and loved her. 
Calling hours for Pamela will be held on April 15, 2023, from 2:00 - 4:00 p.m., in the Mack Funeral Home, 105 Central Street, Gardner, MA 01440. 
Her burial will be private. 
To leave an online condolence please visit,
Kevin J. Mack, Walter C. Taylor, Douglas M. Stone, and Melissa A McQuaid, funeral directors.

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Saturday, April 15, 2023

2:00 - 4:00 pm (Eastern time)

Mack Family Funeral Homes - Lamoureux Smith & Polks Chapel

105 Central St., Gardner, MA 01440

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