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Bette-Jane Schleyer

November 27, 1949 — February 13, 2026

Westminster


Bette‑Jane Helen Schleyer, affectionately known as Bett, passed away on February 12, 2026. Born on November 27, 1949, in Gardner, Massachusetts, Bett was a source of warmth, kindness, and joy to everyone who knew her. Her thoughtful nature, courageous spirit, and generous heart made her a cherished presence in both her community and her family.

For 53 years, Bett was a devoted wife and partner to Robert Schleyer. They shared a long and wonderful life together, filled with family, travel, and everyday moments that brought them happiness. The experiences they built as a couple will be remembered by everyone who knew them.

Bett was a dedicated public educator, spending 36 years teaching 4th grade at Elm Street School in Gardner. She retired from the Gardner School District in 2008, leaving a legacy of nurturing young minds and encouraging a love of learning. Outside the classroom, Bett enjoyed being part of her book club, golfing, and spending time at the beach. She and Robert traveled throughout the U.S. and Europe, creating lasting memories together. She especially treasured summers on Cape Cod with her sister, Cathrine, and winters in Naples, Florida.

Bett is survived by her husband, Robert; her son, Adam Schleyer, and his wife, Cari; her daughter, Jennifer Olimpio, and her husband, Junior; her grandchildren, Lukas and Catherine; her sister, Catherine Jatkola, and her husband, Jack; and her nieces and nephew. She was preceded in death by her parents, Edmund and Wanda Kodys, and her sister, Barby.

The family would like to extend their sincere thanks to Dr. Akshay Desai, Erica Woodcome, APRN, and the dedicated nursing teams who cared for Bett during her inpatient stays at the Brigham & Women’s Center for Advanced Heart Disease. Their compassion and expertise provided comfort and support during her illness. We would also like to thank her long-time cardiologist, Dr. Gerard Aurigemma, at UMass Medical Center.

In lieu of flowers, the family asks that gifts be made to support Brigham and Women’s Hospital, Center for Advanced Heart Disease, 263 Huntington Ave, #318, Boston, MA 02115-4506. Please include “in memory of Bette‑Jane Schleyer” in the memo line.

Bett’s life reflected the values she held dear: love, family, and learning. Her steady presence, kindness, and dedication to others will be remembered by everyone she touched.

We invite all who knew and loved Bette-Jane to share their memories, stories, and photos on her memorial page. Your contributions will serve as a loving tribute to a remarkable woman who lived her life with kindness, courage, and grace. Please do so at www.mackfamilyfh.com.

Calling hours will be held on Thursday, February 19, 2026, in the Mack Family Funeral Homes, Gardner - Chapel, 105 Central Street, Gardner, MA, from 4:00 - 7:00 p.m.

A funeral mass will be held on Friday, February 20, 2026, at 10:00 a.m. at St. Edward the Confessor Church, 10 Church Street, Westminster, MA, and her burial will follow in the Woodside Cemetery, 9 Narrows Road, Westminster, MA

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Thursday, February 19, 2026

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Mack Family Funeral Homes, Gardner - Chapel

105 Central Street, Gardner, MA 01440

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Friday, February 20, 2026

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St. Edward the Confessor Church

10 Church Street, Westminster, MA 01473

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